The theme of this year’s National Adoption Week is “Every Day Is Everything” — a phrase designed to highlight the alarming disparity between the number of children waiting to be adopted (2,060) and the number of approved adopters (640). However, as with many slogans, this is only one part of an increasingly complex jigsaw puzzle that is modern adoption. When I was a young adult, I remember telling my family that I would like to adopt one day. Ours was a slightly complex famil